impact
  • Home
    • About impact >
      • impact in a nutshell >
        • impact's origin story >
          • bio: Kathy Kaplan OAM
        • What else does impact do? >
          • Advocacy & awareness raising
          • Interest-free loans
          • Grants to Refuges
          • Bursaries
          • impactFUL launch party
          • Childcare at Moorabbin Court
      • Our Board >
        • Our vision, mission & values
        • Our policies >
          • Constitution
          • COVID-SAFE measures
          • Acknowledgement of Country
          • Privacy Policy
          • Inclusion Policy
          • Volunteer Policy
          • Child Safety Policy
        • AGM 2022
        • Last year's achievements
        • Board Only Section
    • What is Family Violence?
    • Myth Busting
    • Upcoming events
  • Ways to Help
    • How YOU can help
    • Messages of Hope
    • Donate your dollars
    • Donate your time, effort & skills
    • Bags of Love >
      • Bags of Love - how to help
      • Bags of Love - what to give
    • Trees of Love
    • Court Childcare Project
    • Give them a meal
    • Purses with Purpose
    • Become a sponsor >
      • Sponsor financially
      • Sponsor in kind
  • Get help
    • if your friend needs help
    • Who you can turn to
    • Create a safety plan
    • Tips to help a friend >
      • Helpful things to say, ask or do
      • Things NOT to say, ask or do
    • Tips for youth
    • Tips for male victims
    • Tips for LGBTIQ victims
    • Tips for older people
    • Tips if you witness violence
    • Stay safe online >
      • Conduct an online safety audit
      • Create a strong password
      • Mobile phone safety
      • Computer & internet safety
      • Online banking safety
      • Clear your devices' history
      • Disable tracking devices
  • Get involved
    • Become a Member
    • Volunteer >
      • Coffee Lunch & Craft Group
  • Facts & Stats
    • What is Family Violence?
    • Australia's great shame: the facts >
      • Australia's death toll: 2022
      • Australia's death toll: 2021
      • Australia's death toll: 2020
      • Australia's death toll: 2019
      • Australia's death toll: 2018
    • Cycle of Abuse
    • Warning signs
    • Gaslighting
    • Royal Commission into Family Violence
    • National Community Attitudes Survey
  • Articles, Blogs & Personal Stories
    • News Articles & Blogs
    • Personal Stories
  • Contact us
  • xmas 2020 video
  • Annual Report 2022
  • W&P video 2022
  • PJV chanukah 2006

She's not a stat yet... let's pray she won't become one...

28/4/2017

0 Comments

 
Picture
A 20-year-old Hobart woman is in an induced coma in a Melbourne hospital with burns to more than half her body after allegedly being set on fire by her partner.
Nicole Evans was flown to Melbourne in a critical condition early on Tuesday and will require "many months" of medical treatment after undergoing surgery.
It's alleged her 34-year-old boyfriend, Matthew John Davey, doused her with an accelerant and set her alight in a backyard shed.
He has been charged with causing grievous bodily harm and other matters.
Ms Evans underwent surgery at The Alfred hospital on Thursday and is in an induced coma in a critical but stable condition.
A GoFundMe page has been set up for Ms Evans by Hobart woman Sheena Mclean, who describes Ms Evans as "a true beauty" and "a gorgeous person".
As of Thursday night, the page had raised more than $3600.
National domestic violence helpline: 1800 737 732 or 1800RESPECT. In an emergency call triple-zero.

Read more at http://www.9news.com.au/national/2017/04/28/03/33/hobart-woman-in-coma-after-fire-attack#lJ4HcGGjiwcs73wK.99


​from http://www.9news.com.au/national/2017/04/28/03/33/hobart-woman-in-coma-after-fire-attack#bMJEJXmpaDHfYlob.99
0 Comments

A few key steps could stop our male violence epidemic - by Sherele Moody

25/4/2017

0 Comments

 
Picture
AUSTRALIA, it's time we grabbed a cuppa, pulled up a stump and had a chat about the brutal problem that's tearing our communities apart and the simple way to fix it.
But before we start, here is a recap of the past five days (in case you missed it).
Friday, April 21: A man died after being stabbed in Whyalla and a 47-year-old woman was hospitalised after being bashed with a hammer and stabbed multiple times in Northern NSW.
Sunday, April 23: A 78-year-old woman was found murdered in her Melbourne home and a teenager was left fighting for her life after being bashed In Ipswich.
Monday, April 24: A two-month-old boy died of head injuries at Wagga Wagga.
These crimes are not related but they all have the same chilling threads - the victims and the alleged perpetrators were related or known to each other and all of the people charged are male.
Before you say "But women do it too”, let's have a small recap of the year in murder.
Since January 1, 65 men, women and children have died violently across the nation.
Men have been charged with more than 52 of these killings and women have been charged with eight.
Police are still investigating five.
Wait, did I hear you say "Yes, but Australian Bureau of Statistics data shows domestic violence kills one man every 10 days so the problem of female violence is a massive issue”?
You're quite right, the ABS does have data that shows one man dies at the hand of a family member every 10 days (on average).
But family member does not automatically mean female partner - it means anyone who is related to the victim.
Let's keep this in mind as we further analyse this year's murder statistics.
Of the 65 deaths this year, 39 of the victims were male, 18 of the victims were female and eight were children.
Men have allegedly killed 30 men, 17 women and five children. Most of the assailants were related or known to the victims.
Women have allegedly killed four men, one woman and three children they were either related to or knew.
Before I go any further I should point out that these statistics are the only real-time source of murder data in Australia and they are collected by 10 female volunteers working under the title of the Femicide Australia Project. I am one of those volunteers.
There is no doubt that the murder of any Australian by any person is abhorrent. There is absolutely no escaping the fact that every life is valuable and no man or woman has the right to end another's life.
But if we're to lower the toll of violence in this country we need to start working on the problem that is the greatest and that is male violence.
So how do we fix it?
Well, there's no doubt that we need strong perpetrator programs and luckily we already have these - Heavy M.E.T.A.L Group and Relationships Australia are just two of the many services available to abusers.
We also need to start teaching kids about respecting all people from an early age.
Adults have to lead by example and stamp out any sexism or sexist behaviour at home and in the community.
Schools need to be funded to provide excellent relationships and anti-bullying programs and of course more money must be invested in support services for victims of all genders and ages.
And when we see male violence we need to take action by phoning the cops, telling the abuser that this behaviour is just not acceptable and ensuring we offer a helping hand to victims instead of making them bear the blame for another's violence.
Each and every one of us needs to acknowledge that while not all men are violent, Australia does have a male violence problem. If we name it, we can eliminate it.
All of this is important, there's no doubt about that.
But the thing that can turn around Australia's shameful male violence problem is so simple that it's almost embarrassing to have to say it - own your problem.
That's right. Violent men need to own their problem. They need to look at what makes them angry, controlling and brutal and work out ways to end it.
Most people will tell you they get angry. Some people - myself included - will concede that there are times when the compulsion to punch a wall or throw a plate is almost overwhelming. And that's OK.
What's not OK is allowing yourself to commit violence.
Find yourself an outlet for your anger. If you feel the rage building, go for a long walk and breathe deep. Then get your phone out of your pocket and start dialling. Ask your GP for a mental health plan. Phone Relationships Australia and join an anger management program, phone your partner and tell her that you've got the shits and you won't be home until you've calmed down.
It's not hard - millions of Australians lose their temper everyday but only a few make the leap from emotional turmoil to murder. If the rest of us can control ourselves, so can violent men.
0 Comments

Finally a parliamentary inquiry into the family law system targeting violence

23/4/2017

0 Comments

 
Finally a parliamentary inquiry into a better family law system to support and protect those impacted by domestic violence including children. 

If you know someone who has been impacted by the family court following domestic violence, share this email and help them to find their voice to make a public statement or complete the questionnaire for a better family court system. 

Together we can create a better, more efficient system that protects vulnerable people. Kyhesha-Lee’s case was a criminal case, however we must take action at every level of law to protect children therefore the family law system extremely relevant. 

Stand together to demand a system that protects children, rather than treats child abuse with suspicion and disregard. Perhaps if Kyhesha-Lee’s mother felt there was a better system to support Kyhesha-Lee she would have taken action, perhaps other family members would have stepped in, sadly we will never know. What we do know is that safety starts with getting the judicial system right by taking domestic violence seriously. 

Link to video to explain the parliamentary inquiry: https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=youtu.be&v=gQSuZNrKAeI&app=desktop 

Link to the parliamentary inquiry:
http://www.aph.gov.au/fvlawreform

Link to parliamentary inquiry questionnaire: 
http://www.aph.gov.au/Parliamentary_Business/Committees/House/Social_Policy_and_Legal_Affairs/FVlawreform/Questionnaire

Link to place to make your community statement: 
http://www.aph.gov.au/Parliamentary_Business/Committees/House/Social_Policy_and_Legal_Affairs/FVlawreform/Community_statements

Please share. 


From ​https://www.change.org/p/father-punches-and-kills-3-year-old-who-has-been-sexually-abused-gets-7-yrs-in-gaol/u/20084048?utm_medium=email&utm_source=61888&utm_campaign=petition_update&sfmc_tk=6O83qha6ANIMciDXQPsKzp7BXKTCRSB%2fA64hifCIl9ydAE%2bXjMP07XdKaweGRpqC
0 Comments

End soft sentencing for child abuse and domestic violence

14/4/2017

0 Comments

 
Picture

End the judicial system's sympathetic attitudes and questionable soft sentencing of child abuse, child sexual abuse and domestic violence perpetrators.
In the most recent Australian case, Matthew Lee Williamson was given just nine years for the murdering Kyhesha-Lee his three year old daughter. He could be out on parole in just seven years. 
"Your treatment of your daughter was occasionally loving but mostly cruel and callous,” Justice Atkinson said. “You should have put her welfare above all else.”
Kyhesha-Lee HAD MEDICALLY VERIFIED SEXUAL ABUSE INJURIES IDENTIFIED AT HER AUTOPSY…  and her short life was characterised by repeated violence and sexual abuse. Sexual abuse is not loving and not the behaviour of anyone who should have access to children, even if the children are their own.
Matthew’s behaviour towards his daughter is abhorrent and Judges must be called to account and dismissed for their soft sentencing on all forms of child abuse and domestic violence. 
One punch legislation has a mandatory minimum sentence for violent assaults fuelled by drugs and alcohol of eight years, with a max. of 25 years. Legislation must be changed to address the overwhelming levels of violence in homes and to children.
Kyhesha-Lee was delivered one fatal punch. One fatal punch from her own father, along with a life of sexual abuse. Violence to children, especially by the their parents or family members is not okay.  Legislative changes must be brought in to protect and address the epidemic crisis of domestic, child and sexual violence in our country. 
Innocent children and vulnerable people deserve our support as a community. Perpetrators need to know the community is outraged and will no longer tolerate domestic violence. 
Send the message loud and clear to politicians, violence against children and vulnerable people is not okay. Our judicial system is not reflective of community attitudes. 
​Sign the petition here.
0 Comments

The photo that exposes the harrowing reality of living with domestic violence

6/4/2017

0 Comments

 
Picture
The caption accompanying this photo read:
A few weeks back a colleague of mine went to a domestic assault and found this when he entered. Male arrested and charged. Life saved.

The image offers a glimpse into the waking nightmare of one nameless victim. A woman who lived surrounded by threats.

Source: 
http://www.mamamia.com.au/domestic-violence-crime-scene-photo/


0 Comments

    Archives

    September 2019
    July 2019
    June 2019
    May 2019
    April 2019
    March 2019
    February 2019
    January 2019
    December 2018
    November 2018
    October 2018
    September 2018
    August 2018
    July 2018
    June 2018
    May 2018
    March 2018
    February 2018
    December 2017
    November 2017
    October 2017
    September 2017
    August 2017
    July 2017
    June 2017
    May 2017
    April 2017
    March 2017
    February 2017
    January 2017
    November 2016
    October 2016
    September 2016
    August 2016
    July 2016
    June 2016
    May 2016
    April 2016
    March 2016

EVERY DOLLAR MAKES A DIFFERENCE
Picture


impact acknowledges the Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander People as the First Peoples of Australia, the traditional owners of the lands and waters throughout Australia: lands and waters which have never been ceded.
​We recognise their continuing connection to land, waters and community and we pay our respects to their peoples, their cultures, their languages and to their elders past, present and emerging.

​
View impact's Privacy Policy here

Picture
Picture
Picture
Picture


​impact is very proud to call the following organisations our key partners:
Picture
Picture
Picture
Picture
ABN: 17 159 728 753
PO BOX 217 GLEN HUNTLY 3163

Copyright © 2022